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Say 'I Do' to a Winter Courthouse Wedding in Orange County, NC
 
Bride in a white coat with off white floral bouquet with groom wearing a brown suede jacket smiling on a sidewalk in Hillsborough, NC

Anna + Kyle’s Winter Elopement at the Hillsborough, NC Courthouse

Photographed by Courtney

Winter in Orange County, NC is a magical time, with crisp air and breathtaking views, but still mild enough for a beautiful celebration. It’s the perfect season for a romantic and intimate courthouse wedding, even if you take it outside for a short ceremony like Anna and Kyle chose to do. Not only is it cost-effective and stress-free, but it can also be a unique and memorable experience for you, your partner and close loved ones. From personal touches to what to wear, we’ll guide you through everything you need to know to create a beautiful and unforgettable experience. So, whether you’re looking for a low-key ceremony or a more elaborate event, say ‘I do’ to a winter courthouse wedding and start planning your special day today.

Holding Family Close

The thing about a wedding with just those closest to you means you have time to really get those candid memories captured. A couple choosing to elope with only a few of their closest family and friends, is a couple that cares so deeply about what this day signifies. The people they hold closest to Anna and Kyle are their biggest fans, their every day cheerleaders, the people that will continue to surround them with love and support through this marriage, all the days ahead.

Why Have a Courthouse Wedding

For couples who are looking for a more low-key ceremony, the courthouse elopement option can be a perfect fit. Winter is an especially good time to consider a courthouse wedding, as it can add a cozy atmosphere and a touch of magic to your special day. In addition, a courthouse wedding can be a great option for those who value simplicity and want to focus on the true meaning of their marriage. The specific courthouse Anna and Kyle were married at is located in Hillsborough, NC. The Orange County Courthouse is a beautifully quaint location.

Winter weddings also lend themselves to a cozy atmosphere that can be hard to replicate in other seasons. The chill in the air and the possibility of snow can make your wedding photographs look like something out of a fairytale. Additionally, the lack of crowds during the winter months means that you'll have a quieter, more intimate experience with your loved one.

Another significant benefit of a courthouse wedding is its simplicity. It allows you to focus on the meaning of your marriage without the distractions of a big wedding. A courthouse wedding can be a meaningful and beautiful way to start your life together.

What does a ceremony at the courthouse look like?

To make the most of your courthouse wedding, it's important to plan ahead and think about the details that will make your day special. First, consider the timing of your ceremony - courthouse weddings are generally shorter than traditional weddings, so plan accordingly. Anna and Kyle invited only the people closest to them so everything moved very quickly, but also allowed for the most epic captures.

Next, think about the attire. While a courthouse wedding is less formal than a traditional ceremony, it is such an amazing opportunity to showcase your unique style. More on that later, because this couple knocked out the styling out of the park with their attire.

When it comes to the ceremony itself, consider adding personal touches that reflect your personalities and values. You can write your own vows, choose readings that are meaningful to you, or incorporate a special song into the ceremony. Anna and Kyle actually chose to take their ceremony outside, check with your local courthouse if this is an option or maybe you just sign the documents inside and have your own personal and intimate ceremony outside!

By taking the time to plan and think about the details, you can make your courthouse wedding a truly memorable and special day. In the next section, we'll go over some creative ideas for adding personal touches to your winter courthouse wedding.

What to Wear for a Winter Courthouse Wedding

As you prepare for your winter courthouse wedding in Orange County, NC, you might be wondering what to wear to your special day. The good news is that you can still look stylish and elegant while staying warm during the colder months. Just wait for these details, drooling. But here are a few tips to help you choose the perfect outfit for your winter courthouse wedding.

First and foremost, think about the weather. If you're getting married in the colder months, you'll want to choose fabrics that will keep you warm. Consider a dress with long sleeves or a jacket to keep you cozy. You can also opt for a faux fur stole or wrap for added warmth. Anna chose a stunning, yet simple coat for the most beautiful monochromatic look for her wedding day. This look was perfectly paired with her grooms warm toned suit and touches.

Next, consider the overall vibe of your wedding. If you're going for a more casual look, you can choose a simple dress or a pantsuit. For a more formal affair, you might opt for a full-length gown or a tailored suit. Regardless of your choice, make sure it reflects your personal style and makes you feel confident and beautiful. I absolutely loved that Anna chose a short and fitted dress but still kept a more traditional short veil to pair and finish her look.

Finally, remember that your wedding day is about celebrating your love and commitment to each other. Your outfit should be a reflection of that love and joy. As you choose your wedding attire, keep in mind that the most important thing is to feel comfortable and happy in your own skin. These two definitely killed their wedding day looks and glided through their day comfortably and stylishly.

Don’t forget to sneak away

Just because it’s a low stress day and you truly get to spend it with your favorite people. Sneak Away. Just do it. Have time as a newly married couple, just the two of you to capture some shots of that new feeling of new beginnings, you won’t regret it.

Making Memories That Will Last a Lifetime

Your winter courthouse wedding is a special day that you'll cherish forever. To make sure every moment is unforgettable, take the time to plan out ways you can capture those precious memories.

Of course we at Fancy This Photography will always suggest hiring a professional photographer to document your day. They can take photos of the ceremony, your first kiss as a married couple, and candid shots of you and your partner celebrating together. You'll have these photos to look back on for years to come. Sometimes it is so easy to forget the details and capturing details in the most beautiful way is our favorite.

Another way to make memories that will last a lifetime is to customize your wedding. You can add personal touches to every aspect of your special day, where will you enjoy your special day after the ceremony or signing of papers? If you are in the Hillsborough area The Wooden Nickel is such a cool and rustic find. Great drinks and food to share with your most loved people.

People always wonder if they’ll miss out on a large wedding, but being surrounded by the people you love and care about the most makes it all worth it.” - Courtney (Photographer : Fancy This Photography)

 
Holiday Inspired Wedding at The Cotton Room in Durham NC
 

Wedding at The Cotton Room Durham NC

Bennett Sasser and Rawls Zollicoffer had a downright durty wedding – and if you’re from Durham, North Carolina, you know that’s a good thing. The couple met and fell in love in Washington, D.C. but decided to tie the knot in their shared hometown. Saturday, December 18, 2021, one week before Christmas, Bennett and Rawls hosted a Bull City wedding at The Cotton Room Durham NC. 

Fancy This Photography’s own, Sarah Martin, documented Bennett and Sasser’s wedding on a Sony A7RIII camera. The weather was overcast, but rain held off just long enough for outdoor portraits. Temperatures were surprisingly pleasant and not too chilly for December. Bennett and Sasser said “I do” at the bride’s childhood church, Duke Memorial United Methodist Church. The couple cared about supporting local business when it came to selecting their wedding vendors.

Christmas Bride and Groom Winter Wedding at The Cotton Room Durham NC Fancy This Photography

On Saturday, December 18, 2021, Bennett and Rawls hosted their wedding reception at The Cotton Room Durham NC. Jennifer V. Events planned their wedding weekend.

“We loved Nikki and Sarah from the moment we met them,” says Bennett. “They have an energy about them that makes you feel comfortable and excited, and we love the types of photos they take (not overly exposed or overedited).”

Keep scrolling to read Bennett & Rawls’ love story and to witness more from their winter wedding at The Cotton Room Durham NC. 

The Love Story 

Bennett and Rawls met in Washington, D.C. as college graduates and kickball teammates. She went to UNC and he went to USC – they were a collision of Carolina fans who bonded quickly over their shared hometown of Durham, North Carolina.  

Back-to-back national championships on the kickball field aka the National Mall led to love. Bennett and Rawls’ relationship continued to grow over dinner dates, football games and concerts. On Thursday, November 25, 2020 (Thanksgiving), he proposed. 

The Proposal

Bennett had accepted a new job in Charlotte and the pair decided to move back to The Old North State together. The timing was perfect. 

Rawls’ family invited Bennett’s family over for Thanksgiving. Before anyone arrived, Rawls got down on one knee in the front yard and asked Bennett to spend the rest of her life with him. 

The proposal was a complete surprise. Rawls received Bennett’s father’s blessing a couple of days prior and didn’t tell anyone when he planned to pop the question. Bennett said “yes” and the two families celebrated together over a Thanksgiving feast. 

Black and White Image Groom and Groomsmen Wedding at The Cotton Room Durham NC Fancy This Photography

Winter Wedding at The Cotton Room Durham NC

With the wedding set to take place one week before Christmas, Bennett and Rawls wanted to decorate The Cotton Room Durham NC with lots of white, gold and green. Black tartan tablecloths set the tone for a fabulously festive event. Gold ornaments with black tartan ribbon placed at each table setting tied the holiday theme together. 

The Cotton Room is a Durham NC wedding photographer’s dream. The venue is filled with warehouse windows and receives gorgeous natural light during the day and evening hours. Exposed brick walls and wooden beams frame and fill images with warm contrast. Overall, The Cotton Room Durham NC’s appearance and layout is a ten out of ten.

This was Sarah’s first time photographing a Christmas-style wedding. She says the bride and groom did a wonderful job balancing Christmas cheer with sophisticated style. 

First Look at Duke Memorial United Methodist Church 

Bennett says that their first look at Duke Memorial United Methodist Church was her favorite moment of the wedding day. 

“I always thought walking down the aisle would be the first time my husband would see me, but since we were having a winter wedding and the sun sets so early that time of year, a first look was sort of a necessity,” says Bennett. “It was so nice to share that moment with Rawls and to be able to see my dad and the entire wedding party before walking down the aisle took a lot of nerves away.” 

Duke Memorial United Methodist Church Wedding at The Cotton Room Durham NC Fancy This Photography

Bennett grew up attending Duke Memorial United Methodist Church. It is the same church that her grandparents got married in.

Meet Bennett & Rawls’ Wedding Party 

Bennett had 12 bridesmaids and Rawls had 13 groomsmen. Bridesmaids included: Kara Alvarado (Matron of Honor), Claire Murray (Maid of Honor), Emma Berry, Shannon Spillane, Laura Welsh, Hallie Deyton, Jessica Sawyer, Jaclyn McCarthy, Rachel Babler, Sabrina Sasser, Lucy Sasser and Kate Schaefer. Groomsmen included: Wilkins Zollicoffer (Best Man), Andrew King, Will Townsend, John Plonk, Nat Luger, Lane Page, Paul Hosmann, Joe Saunders, Max Frankel, James Waid, Hank LeFlore, Thomas DeLoache and Tate Sasser.

Dogsmaids: Sadie & Callie (not pictured)

Black and White Party Portrait Duke Memorial Wedding at The Cotton Room Durham NC Fancy This Photography

Wedding Ceremony at Duke Memorial United Methodist Church

Bennett and Rawls shared vows in Duke Memorial United Methodist Church, the bride’s childhood church and the same church that Bennett’s grandparents got married in. At the ceremony, Rawls’ sister surprised the couple with homemade program inserts of a photo from Bennett’s grandparent’s wedding at Duke Memorial. Some guests in attendance were members of Bennett’s grandparent’s wedding party!  

Duke Memorial United Methodist Church is a Durham icon/local landmark. The church is rich in history - a fitting characteristic, since the bride's grandparents were also married there.

Fancy This Photography’s team were not able to use flash inside the church. This can be difficult in historic buildings that typically have lots of darkness and shadows. Sarah’s advice for photographing dark wedding venues is to use cameras that can handle higher ISO’s without producing grainy images. It’s also beneficial to use a fast lens with a wide aperture of f/2.8 or wider. 

Christmas Wedding Ceremony Duke Memorial United Methodist Church Wedding at The Cotton Room Durham NC Fancy This Photography

Rockin’ Reception at The Cotton Room Durham NC 

After their wedding ceremony at Duke Memorial United Methodist Church, the newlyweds invited guests to join them at cocktail hour and the reception. Bennett and Rawls were sold on The Cotton Room’s openness and natural beauty. They also loved the venue’s unique location on Golden Belt campus and close proximity to Downtown. Guests had their choice of nearby hotels. As friends and family entered the reception space, they were greeted by lyrics from one of Bennett and Rawls’ favorite Avett Brothers songs written on a giant chalkboard. 

“Always remember there was nothing worth sharing like the love that let us share our name"

Chalkboard Art Welcome Sign Avett Brothers Wedding at The Cotton Room Durham NC Fancy This Photography

Calligraphy // Marika Wendelken

Customized College Koozie Wedding Favors Wedding at The Cotton Room Durham NC Fancy This Photography

Bennett and Rawls’ college mascots, Cocky and Rameses, are pictured on these wedding favor koozies.

As photographer, Sarah’s favorite moment from Bennett & Rawls' wedding was their first dance! Instead of a traditional first dance, the newlyweds chose an upbeat and fun song. 

First Dance Bride and Groom Wedding at The Cotton Room Durham NC Fancy This Photography

Sarah’s favorite detail? The “B&R Candy Bar” of course! This was a sweet surprise from Bennett’s mom and a nod to Rawls’ severe sweet tooth (months later, they are still eating candy from their dessert bar). To cut the wedding cake, Mr. and Mrs. Zollicoffer used Bennett’s great grandparent’s cake cutter and server. 

Customized Candy Bar Wedding at The Cotton Room Durham NC Fancy This Photography

The “B&R Candy Bar” was a surprise from Bennett’s mom and a nod to Rawls’ sweet tooth.

Loved ones toasted and danced to the newlyweds at The Cotton Room Durham NC. Another one of the bride’s favorite moments was when live band, Irresistible Groove, played Jay Sean's "Down" - which is “a banger of a wedding song.”

Reception Dancing Live Band Wedding at The Cotton Room Durham NC Fancy This Photography

Live Band // Irresistible Groove

We love holiday-inspired weddings! Click here to see Alex and Danielle’s New Year’s Eve wedding at The Meroney Theater in Salisbury, North Carolina. 

Photographer // Fancy This Photography 
Planner // Jennifer V. Event
Ceremony Venue // Duke Memorial United Methodist
Rehearsal Dinner Venue // The Rickhouse
Rehearsal Dinner Caterer // Rocky Top Catering
Reception Venue // The Cotton Room
Reception Caterer // Triangle Catering 
Florals // West Queen Studio
Groom’s Tuxedo // Fairclough & Co.
Wedding Dress // Bellissima
Hair & Makeup // Bella Trio Salon and Spa
Party Rentals // CE Rental Raleigh
Cake // Publix
Live Band // Irresistible Groove
Calligraphy // Marika Wendelken