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A Love to Celebrate Christy and Melissa
 

There is good and then there is so right

Together, these two women make a striking pair, showcasing the beauty of individuality and celebrating their unique styles. The contrast between the tailored pant suit and the flowing pant jump suit beautifully balances sophistication and artsy charm. The fusion of their outfits represents a harmonious blend of modernity and whimsy, making a statement that love and style know no boundaries.

I had to share about their outfits of choices out of the gate because they are just that good and pair so well together. Their outfit choices are almost as strong as their love.

“ The first time I met Christy and Melissa I was in awe of their relationship. The respect and love they have to each other is palpable” -Courtney, Photographer for Fancy This Photography

A Traditional Venue with Charm

No matter your choice of venue, creating a perfect wedding day is a labor of love. From designing the decor to finding the perfect place, there are so many things to think about that it can be overwhelming. But with careful thought and execution, and some hard work, you can craft a unique and beautiful special day where you and your guests can make lasting memories. With a traditional church wedding, the charm factor only increases. The classic wooden pews, stained glass windows, a grand center aisle, grand arches, add a magical ambiance to the occasion and make for a truly romantic experience.

The little details

Driving an old Ford Mustang for your wedding can definitely add a touch of nostalgia and uniqueness to your special day. The fact that it's from Christy's high school years adds a sentimental value to the car as well!

The Ford Mustang is an iconic American muscle car known for its stylish design and powerful performance. Its classic appearance and vibrant color will surely turn heads and make for some stunning wedding photos. I loved the pop of color it brought to their day and the fun pictures they now have to remember the car and this day forever.

A reception filled with love and friendship

Christy and Melissa opted for an earlier reception with all the same perks, but guests were let out around 7:30! Kind of a genius way to do things, if you ask me! Through the pictures you will see the tight, loving group Christy and Melissa have surrounded themselves with. The love between everyone was unforgiving. Having an early reception meant they didn’t have to serve a whole dinner, but just had little nibbles for everyone to enjoy. The reception was held at the Wilson Arts Center in Wilson, NC and the venue holds great opportunity for any kind of reception or party you are looking for. I will leave their form for rental HERE.

A day to remember

The wedding day was a powerful demonstration of the love emanating from the brides, and the joy shared by all in attendance. That day was a reminder of the great strength of love, and how it binds us all together. Unforgiving love was the theme of the day, and it was a reminder of what is truly important to us. The celebration was a symbol that, no matter what life throws our way, we can remain strong, connected, and loving. As we look back on the day, let us strive to recreate the same sense of love and joy and spread it to our families, friends, and communities. After all, that is the way to make the world a better place.

Photographer // Courtney, Fancy This Photography

Reception Venue // The Wilson Arts Center

Catering // Southern Harvest

Flowers // Brushed by Bec

Cake // Wildflour’s Cakes

DJ // DJ Shan

Violinist // Udeshi Hargett

Photobooth // This Is What We Do Photobooths

Rentals // CE Rental and Greenhouse Picker Sisters

 
Yolanda & Megan’s Backyard Wedding
 

Beautiful Mebane NC Wedding on Family Property

It was the Saturday before Halloween and the fall North Carolina weather was perfect. A cool breeze gently stirred the warm air. Yolanda Orellana and Megan O’Reilly invited a few dozen friends and family to their beautiful Mebane NC wedding on Oct. 30, 2021. The ceremony and reception both took place in Megan’s mother’s backyard - an intimate, natural setting with a colorful, fall forest backdrop. 

The October sky remained crystal clear as the brides prepared for their first look. Yolanda got ready at Megan’s brother’s house (conveniently located next door) and Megan got ready at her mom’s house. Everyone felt comfortable, laid back and happy to start the day. 

Two Brides Dance Beautiful Mebane NC Wedding in Family's Backyard Fancy This Photography

On Oct. 30, 2021 Yolanda Orellana and Megan O’Reilly said “I do” in Megan’s mother’s backyard.

Backyard Wedding Captured by Fancy This Photography

Although I give all couples some true photojournalistic aspects in their wedding gallery – a backyard wedding just screams photojournalism to me. I document the flow of the wedding dresses, guests interacting, and how comfortable the couple feels because they are at home. There is a wonderful feeling of ease at backyard weddings. I think this is because there is familiarity between the couple and the place.

Fancy This Photography doesn't care where you get married or who you get married to. Whether it's a beautiful backyard or a beach somewhere in the Bahamas. All this NC wedding photographer cares about is celebrating and capturing love in its most authentic and beautiful form for couples. We clicked with brides Yolanda and Megan at the first Zoom meeting. As you can see from these photos, their smiles and laughs are infectious. Keep scrolling to witness more from this special Mebane NC wedding.  

Bride Getting Ready Mother Beautiful Mebane NC Wedding in Family's Backyard Fancy This Photography

On the Front Lines of Love 

Yolanda and Megan first met in the military. They both served in the Army National Guard in their home-state of New Jersey in 2015. Some years later, Megan surprised Yolanda by popping the question while they were at home with their pups. Like their intimate Mebane NC wedding, the engagement was romantic and authentic to them. After Yolanda said “yes,” the brides-to-be called their closest friends and family to share the good news. 

Fall Wedding Party Dogs Beautiful Mebane NC Wedding in Family's Backyard Fancy This Photography

Basset hound Presley and Jack Skellington, the bull-boxer with one eye, participated in wedding festivities.  

One-Eyed Wedding Dog Beautiful Mebane NC Wedding in Family's Backyard Fancy This Photography

Both dogs are rescue pups and you can tell that the brides love them.

Favorite Mebane NC Wedding Moment

Both Yolanda and Megan said their favorite wedding-day moment was the first look. Both brides looked stunning in white wedding dresses from David’s Bridal. Hillsborough-based hair stylist Katie Reagan Lilly and Ministry-Makeup completed their beauty team. There is something so special about a couple seeing each other for the first time in their wedding attire. First look reactions are typically raw and filled with relief and happy tears. 

However, Yolanda says the most unforgettable moment happened at the altar. 

“I completely lost control of my feelings and was crying happy tears. It truly felt like it was just Megan and I at that moment.” - Yolanda 

Meaningful Mebane NC Wedding Ceremony 

On Oct. 30, 2021, Yolanda and Megan held hands and shared vows in front of a gold, geometric wedding arch decorated with green and lavender florals. Pumpkins and hay bales lay at the base of the altar. Yolanda and Megan’s favorite colors, lavender and lilac, were featured throughout the ceremony and reception decor.

Friends and family participated in Yolanda and Megan’s Mebane NC wedding ceremony. Yolanda’s bridal party included her brother Elvis and Maid of Honor and sister Glendy. Megan’s bridal party included her twin brother Patrick, Maid of Honor Matt and two friends Andrew and Alison. The couple’s two pups, Presley the basset hound and Jack Skellington the bull-boxer mix with one eye, also participated as wedding party members.  

I have photographed so many weddings where the couple's pets are present. Seriously, cats included. I think that having Yolanda and Megan's dogs at the wedding made this day extra special. Both dogs were rescue pups and you can tell that the ladies loved them.

Fall Wedding Outdoor Ceremony Beautiful Mebane NC Wedding in Family's Backyard Fancy This Photography
Brides Exchange Rings Rev Dupree Beautiful Mebane NC Wedding in Family's Backyard Fancy This Photography
Brides Exit Beautiful Mebane NC Wedding in Family's Backyard Fancy This Photography

Mebane NC Wedding Ceremony Officiated by Rev. Dupree 

Reverend Katherine Dupree is an ordained NC wedding officiant who creates ceremonies for all couples. From cathedrals to backyards to barns, there isn’t a venue where love cannot be celebrated. Rev. Dupree works with couples to build ceremonies with unique elements - from infusing different faith traditions to showcasing love through symbols and rituals. 

This was my first time working with Rev. Dupree, and I fell in love. She has a great sense of humor and is super professional. She is especially good at talking with people, a talent that helps put guests at ease. My favorite thing about her is that she believes all people deserve love. 

Formals Beautiful Mebane NC Wedding in Family's Backyard Fancy This Photography

A Word on Working With Fancy This Photography

“[Nikki with Fancy This Photography] was understanding, patient and honest with us,” says Yolanda. “She answered all our questions, plus thought of all the little details and asked for our input. Although it is not her job she helped us create an itinerary for our wedding day. Which was greatly appreciated since we didn’t have a wedding planner or anything!”

How Do You Avoid Awkwardness During Formal Photos? 

Being able to talk to people and make them feel comfortable is half the battle. Once people trust the photographer, then beautiful images can be captured of them because they feel at ease. Yolanda and Megan cherish their loved ones and it was important to them that everyone who participated be photographed in beautiful photos that will last a lifetime.

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Tented Mebane NC Wedding Reception 

After the ceremony, Yolanda and Megan invited guests to celebrate beneath a semi-enclosed white reception tent. Lavender, ivory and gold flowers and decor filled the space. The restaurant where Yolanda and Megan shared their first date, Olive Garden, catered. Dancing and dessert followed. 

There are lots of ways to share your special day with passed loved ones by honoring them through photos, a dedicated chair, or a poem/scripture. A beautiful detail from Yolanda and Megan’s wedding was their remembrance table. This remembrance table included images of Yolanda’s grandmother Irenee, cousin Tavito, pups Junior and Linda and Megan’s cat Simba and bird who passed away in 2021 at the age of 21. 

Purple Entry Table Reception Beautiful Mebane NC Wedding in Family's Backyard Fancy This Photography

Pro Tip: Wedding Reception Toasts

When it comes to photographing wedding reception toasts, it’s all about the emotion. Simply put. So many stories to share, tears to shed and laughter to be heard. These speeches are priceless and worth documenting.

Click here to see another beautiful backyard wedding in Littleton, North Carolina. Katelyn and Chad said “I do” beside Lake Gaston, and there’s a cute dog included in their special day too! 

Photographer // Fancy This Photography
Venue // Private Residence 
Officiant // Reverend Katherine Dupree
Wedding Dresses // David’s Bridal
Flowers // Walmart 
Decor // Etsy, Amazon & Party City
Catering // Olive Garden
Hair Stylist // Katie Reagan Lilly 
Makeup Artist // Ministry-Makeup 

 
Cassie & Jess' Walnut Hill Wedding
 

Rustic Romance at Walnut Hill NC Wedding Venue 

Cassaundra Vondrak and Jessica Hirschbuhl tied the knot at Walnut Hill NC wedding venue on Saturday, Oct. 22, 2021. This indoor-outdoor event space is the perfect mix of rustic and modern and is located just 20 minutes away from downtown Raleigh. Cassie and Jess became fast friends with Walnut HIll NC venue owner, Amanda Peoples, throughout the booking process.  

“We could not have asked for a better venue or person to be a part of our wedding day,” says Cassie. “We are so grateful to have had our wedding at this beautiful venue, but more importantly, for everyone that was involved in planning our day.” 

The Vondrak-Hirschbuhl wedding had a rustic yet modern theme similar to Walnut Hill’s style. Navy, burgundy, burnt orange and copper completed the color palette. Cassie and Jess shared vows beside Walnut Hill’s sparkling pond and fountain. Following the ceremony, guests moseyed over to the front lawn for a sunset cocktail hour. 

Fall Wedding Party Barn Walnut Hill NC Wedding Venue Fancy This Photography

October Walnut Hill NC Wedding

Cassie and Jess’ reception took place in Walnut Hill’s newly constructed white barn, which can host up to 200 wedding guests. The barn has modern restrooms and an on-site kitchen for a caterer of your choice. Windows along one wall of the barn offer views of the farm and can be opened to create an alfresco cocktail hour or reception area. Walnut Hill couples receive access to tables, linens, chairs, bars and a vintage piano – which Cassie and Jess used as their dessert display table (pictured later in the blog)! 

One of my favorite things about Walnut Hill NC wedding venue are the plethora of picturesque backdrops. From the gorgeous getting ready farmhouse, hello wraparound porch, to the checkerboard lawn stones - there are endless photo backdrop options on this 400-acre property. If you’re lucky, you might even get Belted Galloway cows grazing peacefully in the foreground of your wedding photos. Seriously, it’s a NC wedding photographer’s dream venue. 

Keep scrolling to witness more of Cassie and Jess’ Walnut Hill NC wedding.

Bride Getting Ready Pajamas Walnut Hill NC Wedding Venue Fancy This Photography

Hair // Battle Born Beauty, Makeup // Erin Kelly from Reverie Hair Co.

Fall Bride and Bridesmaids Walnut Hill NC Wedding Venue Fancy This Photography

Live, Love, Pitch 

Cassie and Jess’ careers in softball coaching brought them together. Jess played Division 1 Softball at Hofstra University in Long Island, New York and Cassie played Division 1 Softball at Long Island University Brooklyn in Brooklyn, New York. Both began coaching after college.

The coaches were recruiting players in June of 2017 at the same softball tournament in Colorado when Jess asked Cassie out to dinner. At the time, Jess coached for East Carolina University in Greenville, North Carolina and Cassie coached for Columbia University in New York. Although Cassie couldn’t make dinner, she agreed to meet Jess for a fun miniature golf date later that evening. They haven’t gone a single day without talking since.

Navy Blue Bridal Party Porch Walnut Hill NC Wedding Venue Fancy This Photography

From the Diamond to Down on One Knee

Jess planned the perfect marriage proposal three years after her first date with Cassie. Due to work, the coaching couple lived two hours apart. Cassie’s boss let her leave work early on Friday, Oct. 23, 2020 so that she could drive to Jess’ house in Greenville, North Carolina for the weekend. Fighting off exhaustion, Cassie gathered up enough energy for a date night. Jess took Cassie out for a romantic dinner at local Italian restaurant, Ninos. Cassie says that Jess must have used the restroom five times during dinner out of nervousness. Jess only uttered one sentence to Cassie over the car ride home. As they stepped inside Jess’ house, Cassie’s jaw dropped.  

Rose petals and candles decorated the floor and the couple’s favorite song, “Speechless” by Dan + Shay, played in the background. Jess got down on one knee and asked Cassie to marry her. Cassie said “yes” and friends popped out from behind hiding spots. After the shock settled, Cassie’s best friends rushed through the front door. Jess surprised Cassie by asking them to fly into town and celebrate the engagement. The rest of the weekend was filled with joy and love. 

Outdoor Wedding Ceremony Design Walnut Hill NC Wedding Venue Fancy This Photography

Cassie’s dad built the geometric arch that set the stage for this outdoor wedding ceremony at Walnut Hill.

Wedding Ceremony Walnut Hill NC Wedding Venue Fancy This Photography

Sentimental Ceremony at Walnut Hill NC Wedding Venue 

Cassie and Jess invited friends and family to witness and participate in their wedding ceremony at Walnut Hill. Jess’ nephew, Will Hirschbuhl, successfully played the role of ring bearer. Cassie’s brother, Derek Vondrak, served as officiant and filled the ceremony with his love, humor and wisdom. The brides said “I do” before a gorgeous, geometric wooden arch created by Cassie’s dad. The ceremony was authentic and emotional. Even when Cassie forgot every word she was supposed to repeat after Derek and when Derek forgot to have the brides kiss as wife and wife (spoiler, they kissed anyways). 

“[Derek] is a huge role model in our lives and has always been so supportive of our relationship,” shares Cassie. “We wrote our own vows for each other and it was so special for the both of us to be able to share our love in our own words.” 

Cassie and Jess released butterflies to represent and honor the people they love who have passed away during their wedding ceremony at Walnut Hill. The brides also reserved a seat in the first row for Jess’ dad who passed away when she was younger. After Jess walked down the aisle escorted by her step dad, Chip, she placed a single rose on the empty chair.    

Outdoor Wedding Ceremony Decor Walnut Hill NC Wedding Venue Fancy This Photography

Planner // Jacyln Hamilton with Timeless Love Weddings, Florist // Bloom Works Raleigh

Group Wedding Photos by Fancy This Photography 

You might be wondering, how does one NC wedding photographer capture so many beautiful people on the same day? Great question! My talented second shooter and fabulous associate photographer, Sarah Martin, documented Jess’ getting ready portion of the day while I captured Cassie’s. This way, both bridal parties received excellent and equal coverage.

For every wedding that I photograph, I try to memorize all names of the wedding party. It’s a skill that I never knew I had until I tried a few years ago. It’s worth the attempt, because I know that this makes my couples feel special and taken care of. Cassie and Jess’ wedding party was genuine and fun, which makes my job easy. 

Fall Wedding Fashion For All 

Cassie bought her wedding dress at Swoon Bridal in her hometown of Reno, Nevada. Soft curls and an expertly braided updo by Battle Born Beauty framed Cassie’s natural-glam makeup by Erin Kelly from Reverie Hair Co. Matron of Honor and sister, Allison Ross, and bridesmaids Bethany Want, Tiffany O’Day, Krista Mattice, Madison Zymokowitz, Lauren Walsh and Jen Draovitch looked beautiful in red bridesmaid dresses. 

Jess wore a chic, custom made suit from Ventresca's in her hometown of Philadelphia. Her hair looked sophisticated in a sleek updo and a bright boutonniere by Bloom Works Raleigh completed the bridal look. Jess’ Maid of Honor and sister, Julia Hilger, wore a navy blue dress and bridal party members Sara Marino, Tessa Ziemba, Krista Hayes, Rob Hirschbuhl, Andrew Hilger and John Hirschbuhl wore an assortment of elegant navy blue dresses and suits. 

Fall Brides Kiss Wedding Party Cheers Walnut Hill NC Wedding Venue Fancy This Photography

After the ceremony, Cassie and Jess dug up a bottle of bourbon that they had buried at Walnut Hill wedding venue for good weather. As wife and wife they took shots, and I took shots on my Nikon d 750 and Nikon d 850 cameras. I loved watching their bourbon-tasting reactions and seeing how excited they were for an amazing reception. 

“We know everyone says that their wedding day is the most perfect day there is, but we truly were blessed with our friends, family and entire vendor team. They made our day so special and more than we could have ever asked or dreamed of.” - Cassie Hirschbuhl

Brides on Swing Barn in Background Walnut Hill NC Wedding Venue Fancy This Photography

Cocktail Hour and Reception at Walnut Hill NC Wedding Venue 

Jess and Cassie made guests a college-inspired corn hole set to play at cocktail hour. Personalized corn hole boards were a perfect wedding detail for this competitive couple. Cassie and Jess played corn hole against each other for hours at a local bar on their first date!  

Jess’ step dad Chip made a giant, wooden softball scoreboard for a seating chart. Reception tables were decorated by Bloom Works Raleigh with warm wedding flowers, greenery, wheat and pampas grass. Table settings featured classic white and gold dinner plates atop a wicker chargers with an orange napkin, gold silverware and personalized escort card. 

Catering Works served guests a delicious meal and for dessert, Cassie and Jess cut into a beautiful cake (also by Catering Works). The couple also ordered donuts and displayed them on a cool board built by Jess’ step dad Chip. Between dancing and tossing the bouquet, the newlyweds posed with friends and family in a photo booth by Dow Oak Events.

Front Lawn Cocktail Hour at Walnut Hill NC Wedding Venue Fancy This Photography

Cassie and Jess hosted their cocktail hour on the checkerboard front lawn of Walnut Hill.

Walnut Hill NC wedding venue has both wedding and elopement packages available.

Fall Wedding Reception Decor Barn Walnut Hill NC Wedding Venue Fancy This Photography

Planner // Jacyln Hamilton with Timeless Love Weddings, Party Rentals // Party Reflections 

Why Did You Choose Fancy This Photography?

“Nikki was the perfect choice for our wedding. We Zoomed with a few photographers and we knew she was the one we wanted within minutes of talking with her! We matched so well with her style of photography but more importantly with how she made us feel as a couple. She was so easy to be around, funny, warm, welcoming and just the energy we were looking for. She was so easy to work with, enjoyable to be around her, as well as the other photographers she brought with her. She fell nothing short of perfection for our perfect day!” - Cassie

“We absolutely loved Nikki and her team at Fancy This Photography! She made us feel so comfortable from the first time we met! It was like we were old friends with how easy she is to be around. She was everything we were looking for with her style of photography and personality. Nikki is warm, welcoming, funny, easy going and fun to be around! She helped make our entire wedding vision possible. Oh, and did I mention, her photography is flawless!” - Jess

First Dance Birds-Eye View Walnut Hill NC Wedding Venue Fancy This Photography

Walnut Hill’s newly constructed white barn can host up to 200 wedding guests.

Wedding Reception Dancing at Walnut Hill NC Wedding Venue Fancy This Photography

DJ + Photobooth // Dow Oak Events

The newlyweds no longer coach college softball. Cassie is a kindergarten and first-grade special needs teacher and Jess works as sales manager for a roofing company called Best Choice Roofing. Cheers to The Hirschbuhls! Thank you for inspiring us with your love and sharing your wedding with Fancy This Photography. 

Barn Wedding Reception Sparkler Exit Walnut Hill NC Wedding Venue Fancy This Photography
Sparkler Exit Kiss Walnut Hill NC Wedding Venue Fancy This Photography

Click here to witness another beautiful barn wedding by Fancy This Photography. This wedding took place at Lavender Oaks Farm in Chapel Hill, NC.   

Photographer // (Nikki!) Fancy This Photography
Venue // Walnut Hill
Planner // Jacyln Hamilton with Timeless Love Weddings
Florist // Bloom Works Raleigh
Catering & Baker // Catering Works
Hair // Battle Born Beauty
Makeup // Erin Kelly from Reverie Hair Co.
Cassie’s Dress // Swoon Bridal 
Jess’ Suit // Ventresca
DJ + Photobooth // Dow Oak Events
Party Rentals // Party Reflections 
Videography // Jon Warlick Media